Tuesday, February 22, 2011

One Last Teen

Mariah turned 13 this past weekend. I took her out to breakfast on Friday before school. We thought that was pretty cool. She missed the first two periods of the day. Awesome! She got back in time to take an English test so we fulfilled our responsibilities of the day. I had to go to preschool for a make up snow day to our parents. Ended up subbing in a strep zone. ugh. So far so good.

On Saturday, Mike and Gib took Mariah to see "I Am Number Four". They really liked it. I was at a Women's Retreat with the Good Shepherd Church and Grammy. We had a great time. I learned alot about different prayer practices and during free time I went with a small group to the Sewanee University's famous magnificent chapel to see the stained glass. It's not do-able in one trip I discovered. I also went to Hallelujah pottery and bought some cool soup bowls.

On Sunday, we returned home to briefly say hello, before saying Good-Bye to Mike as he headed out to Utah to spend time with his family. I also had a Coldwater Creek dinner thing to go to. I was really tired and wasn't much in the mood, but we got $15Carrabas gift cards to go because of how well we did in December.

Monday brought about a 3 day weekend. These days off just feel normal anymore. Who thinks anything of a 3 day weekend. It's going to be brutal when we have to start going to school like the real people do.

And that brings us to today. I thought it would be cute to see an "action shot" of a typical moment. Me, at the computer. Pixie on the couch near her person.... Said person, Mariah, the New Teen on the block, hanging out playing with her new iTouch.

What I failed to remember was, as a newly hatched 13 year old, I did not seek her permission to take a photo. Next time I am to ASK first and photo later. MUCH later. I noted that would negate the candid, and she noted that she did not like having a photo taken when she didn't know about it.



So I retorted that I didn't particularly like my cell phone going to school. I drove her to school and then had to drive back to retrive it! She didn't think that was a fair comparison since it was an accident, she felt horrible about it, apologized, etc., and I was taking a photo without permission (gasp!) on purpose. Oh, au contraire, my little chick.... our little repartee ended when I pointed out that it was the same in that I dealt with life's little irritations with a smile on my face and she should too.

Of course, not in a candid, because then it would be a "say CHEESE!"

Can you tell I have a new teenager?! Oh yes, I can!!!!

Monday, February 14, 2011

"Modern" Good Turns

Some "Modern Good Turns" from my 91 yr old Grandpas Boy Scout Book, circa 1931. If you haven't done a good turn like this lately you need to step it up:


Cranked car for one-armed man (my goodness, Grandpa is OLD!!!!)

Climbed a tree at night to get a chicken for a lady (yeah, I'm buying that)

Went to town to get husband for sick woman (just any ol guy willing to marry and take care of the broad)

Boy was sick, pulled him home on wheel (he felt way better after that)

Polished an old woman's stove for her (hey Gib! I'm old! My stove needs polishing!!)

Caught a cow and drove it home for a lady (there were alot of ones about cows)

Helped grocer recover spilled fruit (origination of the 3 second rule)


Kept a cat from killing a chicken (does a birdie count?!)


Helped the cook pick a chicken (counts twice if you couldn't save the chicken from the cat)


Put top back on manhole after same was open part of night (he had nothing to do with that, Scouts Honor)

Ah, those WERE the good old days!!

*These books came from the treasures my mom brought back from Grandpa's house. I think Gib should do some sharing with his troop. There are some real gems in there.

Next time I don't have anything to blog about, I'll just open one of the handbooks for boys up, and we'll all learn how to help a lady (or a three-legged cow with a slipknot around its neck) cross the street. Or what to do with a live wire (you put it out on the curb, of course).

So... have you done anything lately that's a Modern Good Turn?! I was supposed to help my friend today who is going thru Chemo, but we had to postpone. So I got into trouble instead. See?!?! See what happens with idle hands (or is it minds)?! Guess I better get back to something more productive.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Just Another Snow Day

On Wednesday, 2/9/11, we had school's closing at noon. Our neighboring county made the decision prior to school opening so those people knew going in and could plan accordingly. We can't do things like that here, due to the furor that would erupt at the mention of the 8th snow day, and the plans it would interrupt when there wasn't a hint of a flake on the horizon... radar map notwithstanding. Those giant blue blobs heading our way are such old hat anymore, nobody rushes to the store for bread and peanut butter until the blob is less than an hour away and little icy thingys are pinging off your windshield.

However, everybody knows, we do what the other county does. I dropped the ball on this one, I admit. I did not know the other county declared a half day, or I might have left Gib and Mariah at home if they could handle it academically. So at preschool drop off, we TOLD all the parents, if school closes, so do we and to keep their cell phones on and be prepared for a noon closing. Seriously, not 5 minutes after preschool started, we got the call from our school system that schools would close at 11:30. That made the director and I have to call 30 parents who had just left the building. Meanwhile, I was texting and calling Mike and Grammy to get them to pick up Gib and Mariah. I do not TRUST the buses with my children after Indy's experience one year when the snow arrived fast (just like this one did) and it took hours for her to get home. And actually, the bus driver gave up and dumped all the kids at another school but we parents had no way of knowing it since all cell phones ceased working, all landlines were overloaded, and these were middle school kids, most of whom at that time did not have cell phones even if they could get a call out. What a nightmare. Never again - that's my motto. When preschool parents complain, I tell that story. Think about buses sliding off the road with your child in it - almost happened recently, your child on a bus somewhere, but you can't find them, FOR HOURS in a snow storm, your husband is on the freeway FOR HOURS - try 6 or 8, and you're stuck at home trying to find help. And that is why schools close.

But, when everyone was loading their preschool children in their cars, to add insult to injury, still not a flake in the sky... but there were sunbeams, birds were singing, it was quite nice if you don't count it was cold enough to die in 20 minutes flat out there. And there was that blue blob on the radar map was making its way towards us.

Well, this one meant business - it just took 4 hours to get here. But when it hit, within minutes we had snow covered roads and it iced up immediately. People who were on the roads at 3:30, travelling what is usually a 15-20 minute commute, (note this is the usual school departure time), did not get home until 6, 8, or even 10:30 p.m. depending on where they were travelling - i.e., how icy and bumper to bumper was it, did people abandon their cars, etc. Because the snow hit so hard and so fast, it all iced up, right at rush hour, and everyone hit the roads at once, it was a nightmare. Mike had a coworker, in fact, who could not get any further in his car, due to ice and hills, had to park it, and walk 5 miles home (uphill, haha). In the snow, about 30 degrees. Carrying his laptop in a backpack. A sheet of ice is way different than a foot of snow.

This was what it looked like the next morning. (Oh, and we got railings before it snowed! Aren't they pretty?! Me, Mom & Skeeter went to the welder's place and he custom designed them based on what we liked). I tried to get a photo showing the pretty sparkly snow that we got the night before. It hadn't snowed any more than the couple inches we got from the initial burst, but it was so pretty, and fluffy at our house. I liked how sparkly it was the next morning.

Another day later, it is still that way. Today is Friday 2/11/11, and school no school again! This surprised me. It's our 9th snow day. There are 10 snow days planned for in the school calendar. There is some debate about what happens after that. Possibly some kind of grace period if another Act of God occurs. But if it's just a measly 1 or 2 rain/flood day, I don't know....



Here's Chino looking out the front door:
"Ummm, let's see. 12 degrees outside. I don't think so."


Diego: "Again?!!!!! Why?!"


"My paw is cold, and I didn't even leave the porch"





On another note: Things sure have been quiet around here, oh say around 5:30 a.m., it's is BLISSFULLY quiet, if you know what I mean. I saw Mrs. Cardinal the morning after our new toy arrived. She was sitting on somebody's favorite branch, calling for him. yeah, yeah, yeah... that's when I told her he was a no good peeping tom, he didn't spend time with her and the winglets like he should've and what kind of psycho example was he anyway? he couldn't have possibly been providing since he spent ALL friggin day long attacking my windows and I knew she could do alot better. I haven't seen her since our little pep talk.




Sharp shooting skills are apparently a dominant gene. Indy and Mariah both picked up the pellet gun and got bullseyes. Taryn needs to come home and give it a go! Gib, of course, is a great marksman... Scouting and all that! They say the pellet gun is fun, and maybe someday, when it's not 8 degrees outside, I'll try it. I'm thinking when it's hot and there are lots of leaves so the golfer I accidently make miss par can't figure out where the wild shot came from.


Sunday, February 6, 2011

Superbowl Sunday

It's been a crazy week, but then I think about it and wonder.... when hasn't it been a crazy week? If I don't write down what I want to blog about right away, it all just goes into thin air. In other words, it's lost in my mind. :))

So, now that I've saved several of you the time it would have taken to make that comment, you can read on while I blab waiting for something worth writing about to surface in my mind.

  • Indy has the flu. We saw her over the weekend before she came down with it. I kept nagging her to get the shot but she waited too long and then she kept getting sick and never got the vaccination. Now she has it. November 1st next year Indy, you better be the first in line on campus to get that free shot, girl!! This is the 4th time she has been really sick this winter. Not cool, not cool at all.
  • Mariah is getting over a sinus infection. That was our week last week. I missed a couple days of work and she missed 4 days of school. I had a bit of a cold during that time too, so I was all right with it. We took our sick selves to a private high school open house. Nothing like a little germ spread. It's a remote back up plan in case we can't get out of this rezoning, and that other high school hasn't gotten off my bad radar. It's hard to separate fact from stereotype, and impossible to get a real read from conflicting reports. What I do know is it is the worst performing high school and that definitely looks bad when you are submitting transcripts to colleges. Yeah, you have a excellent gpa, took high level courses, from a craptactular school. Big Whoop. That poor reputation won't get you the nice scholarship that pays the big bucks unless you earn it in spite of the school's standing. So, I hope Mariah gets grandfathered in with Gib to his high school. She will stay with friends and won't have to wear uniforms to school. However, I will say that Home Economics classroom, complete with kitchens, sewing machines, etc., was a blast from the past and those cookies, made by Home Ec students ....OUT OF THIS WORLD! .... according to Mariah. I wish I had eaten one. They are still calling out to me. As good a reason as any to enroll, I say.
  • Gib has a super bowl party to go to today. It will be a quiet football game for just me and Mike. I doubt Mariah will watch it with us. He went on a Venture Crew laser quest outing a couple nights ago and had a good time. Gib enjoyed Indy's visit at home very much. Everyone should ask him his very favorite part of it. It involved Indy wrapped around his leg while he tried to shake her off and everyone trying to hold their pants up. I took photos. Which will never be seen apparently since I haven't seen them appear on facebook yet. Hahahaha!!!! And why, are you wondering, did this occur? Or do you think this kind of stuff just happens around here all the time? Well, it might.... but this time, Indy spotted a NAME written on Gib's hand and wanted to read what it said. Gib tried to get away. When it appeared that Gib might succeed, I called in Mariah for reinforcements. Once the name was acquired, we women backed off and Gib huffed out. Mwahaha. He should have just given up the name in the first place! Soooo much easier. And as Indy said, "what did ya think was gonna happen? that's what you get for letting HER write on your hand!" Ahhh, it was a great show. Now that I think about it, I'll bet Gib was glad to get out of the house this weekend.
  • Taryn is busy studying. She was shut in during the blizzard due to the extreme conditions. She is good. And that's all I know right now. I hope she has a chance to tell us more about the adventure, I'm sure that was, soon!
  • My mom has been in San Diego getting my Grandpa moved into his new senior residence place. It's called Monte Vista in Lemon Grove, CA... he is settled in now and I imagine that even though it was by choice, making the actual move was a big deal when you have been in one house for 60 years. No, wait, I think it was longer than that! Maybe almost 70 years. Grandpa is 91. The house is going to be sold and there will be an estate sale and possibly and open house at the same time on everything that mom didn't pull out of it. I am sure that was a lot of decision making and hard work. What doesn't get sold will go to church rummage sale if they want it or Good Will if they don't.
  • The Office Where I Type The Blog: Has A New Floor!!! I need a photo inserted here, don't I?! I took a couple on my phone and will have to scrounge one up. So, a family tradition, one which I quite like, is an anniversary gift from my parents to help Mike & I, and our family with a gift that was really needed for our home. It's not every year, but when it is especially needed. One year it was a dining room table, our first one that my mom finished herself. Many times, my dad helped Mike with projects. Over the years the anniversary gifts have run the gamut from bbq's to trees and furniture... all made a difference and was really appreciated and greatly used. This year it was a BIGGIE. We have been HATIN' the office floor. White carpet in the most used room in the house = a big bummer. Well, it's gone now and we have a nice laminate which is just awesome! Thanks Mom!!! She thought about going with one of several other needs in this place, but hands down, the floor in the office screamed PICK ME! PICK ME! and we all give an enthusiastic THANK YOU!!!! in return.