Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Hayward Continued and Carol

While we lived in Hayward my brothers attended Colonial Acres Elementary School. I believe we lived on Harvard Street. I figure this from my recollection of where the school was from our house and the "Creek" at the end of our street, see the map link below.

Use the satellite view and zoom - you can see the "Creek".

http://maps.google.com/maps?q=17115+Meekland+Ave,+Hayward,+CA+94541,+USA&sa=X&oi=map&ct=title

I have several other scattered recollections from this time. One time when I was about 4, I was punished for bad behavior in a timeout under a large cardboard box; I found a bobby pin while under there and had fun playing with it. I didn't mind that timeout at all, and I remember Marie laughing about it years later that I was alway ingenious that way.

Another time, we had a babysitter one night and the three of us boys got into the cookies, a "no-no". That got us oatmeal cookies and nothing else, for breakfast, lunch, and dinner for a couple of days. We did get milk to drink with our cookies though.


However, the biggest event there in Hayward was the birth of my first half sister, Carol. She was born in October of 1968. I remember being told, by someone who was taking care of us, that she had been born while Craig and Marie were at the hospital, but I do not remember the time when they came home from the hospital. I think this was the event that triggered the need for us to move, because sometime before I started school, September of 1969, we moved to San Lorenzo.


I don't have many pictures of Carol, but this is the youngest one I could find.


I also found this great picture!
This is Fred and Marie in July of 1961.
Marie is pregnant with my brother Ron.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Shoulder Surgery

Chrissie had her surgery on Monday to remove calcium from her shoulder and to smooth out the rotator cuff. She had no complications and only 3 small incisions. She has had some good pain meds and says the pain from the surgery is less than the pain from the tendonitis before the surgery. She began her physical therapy today.

Court of Honor

Last night was a Court of Honor - Gib received 4 Merit Badges



Scoutmaster Green at the podium.



Gib on his way to receive MB's



Gib receiving awards.

Hot Springs

Chrissie and I spent the weekend in Hot Springs, Arkansas. We spent Friday afternoon site seeing - the Bath House Row museum and Thermal Cascade and ate at a nice german restaurant. I had goulash and Chris had bratwurst. Saturday was an all day event at the Oaklawn Horse races. We were supposed to do this on Friday, but a late start from Franklin got us there too late, so we swapped days. I did pretty well opening with a winner on the first race. Missed the Daily Double by 2 feet. My horse in the second race was leading all the way and then was edged out at the last second. Oh well, we enjoyed the day. After the races we ate at a South American restaurant. The hotel had a spa package that was part of our deal. This allowed us to get a 20 minute bath in the natural hot spring water and then a massage.



Arlington Hotel



Thermal Cascade



Oaklawn Racetrack



Before the crowds got there - It was a capacity crowd.



Ronald Reagan's Suite - Just down the hall from us.

They tell us that Al Capone use to visit on a regular basis and rented out the whole 4th floor when he was there.

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Chrissie’s Corner and Snowflake Lane

Well, we actually had a little snow for an hour or so. It’s a remote possibility that school will be cancelled – we can only hope! Oh, guess what? It’s snowing again…no school, no school, no school…oh, wait, if there’s no school I won’t get to have my 3rd annual luncheon tomorrow I started with my fellow ward sisters who have lost babies. Hmmm….that’s a hard one to decide which I want more. On one hand, I can always reschedule a lunch, especially one where we’ll have a couple teary moments, but on the other hand, sleeping in on a Thursday is pretty high up there on the happiness-meter!

Mariah went out and made snowballs. She brought in one the size of a quarter and I laughed at her, mostly because she actually put it in the freezer (remember I told you about that!). So then she went out and made a decent sized snowball. Put that one in the freezer. Went out again, and came in, I hear a “splat!” and then an “oops!” and laughed again. Well, there’s one clean spot on the floor now! Grammy took a photo of Mariah.






Chrissie’s Corner and Mutakinmove!

OK, you have to check out the horses names at the races on Friday! This is good stuff! Here’s an idea: Send your choices – and if I can, I’ll bet on it! (Unless I really like my choice better and Mike won’t spot me another $2 bucks!) Us vs Mike’s Stats…let’s see who wins!!! Right off the bat, here’s some that caught my eye: Katie’s Kandles and Rocker Chad (too bad they’re not in the same race!); Utah Sky and Seminary Field - but so far my favorite is Mutakinmove! I was really hoping for something to do with UNO, but didn’t see one…maybe by raceday…..So send me your choices now! http://www.oaklawn.com/races.aspx?date=01-18-2008

Chrissie's Corner and College Ave

So, I get the old “why don’t YOU write something” from Mike today seeing as how I have been bugging him to post something….

Well, it IS his blog, but maybe we should convert to a family blog, but I just don’t know if I can be creative under the name of Ringo. It’s just not ME.

I’ll give it the old “college try” since that subject has been uppermost in my mind and agenda lately. I’ve got Indy signed up for another college campus visit in February at Vanderbilt University. Wowzer – that is one expensive school! Too bad BYU isn’t on Indy’s radar right now. We’ll also visit University Tennessee Knoxville, University North Carolina Chapel Hill and maybe Wake Forest. San Diego State University is on her list too. Maybe after EFY in Florida there’ll be another college on her list. My stomach has started bothering me with the nerves of it all. I can feel the Momma-Pre-Meltdown beginning already. Let’s just refer to it from now on as MPM because I’m pretty sure it’ll come up again in the months ahead!

On a brighter note, Mike and I are getting away this weekend for our 21st wedding anniversary. We’re going to Hot Springs, Arkansas. They have a natural hot springs and mineral water spa where we’ll get to take a dip, followed by massages. I’ve already scoped out the restaurants (until 1 am during the first MPM when I couldn’t sleep) and have a list of yummy places for us to choose from while we are there. We’re going Cajun and, oddly enough in Arkansas, to a German Braus Haus! And purely coincidentally, Friday is the opening day at the Thoroughbred Racetrack!! Mike and I used to go to the Del Mar races while we were dating. We had such fun – we’d take $25 each, 2 footlong Togo’s, sodas, and lawn chairs and kick back on the blacktop right in front of the fence where the horses crossed the finish line. I love picking horses based on their names, how pretty they are, whether or not I like the Jockey colors, etc. Mike on the other hand, is all logical and deep into stats. I have a hard time not being swayed by his totally uninspired approach. I’m excited to go on opening day because we’ve never done that before, AND they have corned beef sandwiches and sodas priced at .50 all day! I’ll let you know how the sandwiches taste…not too sure about them! But, hey, more $$ for me to bet on Momma’s Meltdown to place!!!

Whats happen'n

Boy Scouts

Gib atteneded a Merit Badge University this last Saturday and passed off Art and First Aid. He is excited for his first ever ski trip that the troop is doing over Presidents weekend in February. We , he and I, will be going to Sugar Mountain for 3 days. This will be the first time I have gone skiing in probably 10+ years.

See http://www.skisugar.com/conditions/


Girl Scouts

Mariah has just completed her first foray in Sales. She sold over a hundred boxes of Girl Scout Cookies. She enjoys the twice monthly meetings and loves any associated GS activity.


Commission

Indy has already blown past her sales quota for the month of January at the music store. This has the distinct advantage for her to receive commision money on top of her wages. This will be the first time she has surpassed her quota, tough to do as a part-timer.


EFY

Indy and Taryn have applied for EFY in St. Petersburg, Florida this year. Each year has been a different location. We have done Bowling Green, KY, Buena Vista, VA, and Gainsville, GA, previously. Turns out that Grandpa Fred lives just a mere 15 minute drive from the EFY college location in Florida, Ekerd College. We will fly them to Tampa Bay and let Grandpa Fred deliver and return them. I am sure the girls will take the opportunity to spend some extra days with Grandpa Fred and the nearby Florida Beaches.


Bye, Bye, Birdie

Taryn and Indy have been selected to participate in the school play. Practices begin today. They are both excited. They had such a good time doing "Seussical the Musical" last year, I expect they will enjoy this one just as much. You will certainly have some pictures posted of this once they are in production.


21 Anniversary

Chrissie and I just passed our 21 anniversary last week. We went to Stoney River for dinner (a day early) and have planned a three day getaway weekend starting Friday to Hot Springs, Arkansas. We will enjoy being together without any "parental responsibilities" for the short period of time. Grammy, you're up - don't let them take advantage of you!!

See http://www.arlingtonhotel.com/

Friday, January 4, 2008

Why do you post your stock trades?

Chrissie asked the short question - here is the long answer.

Money management has always been a topic that has interested me. I subscribe to and read Kiplingers and Money magazine. My homepage is finance.yahoo.com. I use Quicken on an almost daily basis. I watch Mad Money on CNBC occasionally, ok Chris and the kids would probably say more than occasionally, can you say "Boo-Yah". I prefer an active role in managing our money instead of letting mutual fund mangers do it. And, I believe stocks are one of the best longterm ways to build wealth.

While I am an advocate of good money management, I certainly do not profess to be an expert nor do I always manage our money well. My money management skills are often not what I'd like them to be. It is a continuous learning process. I got a late start in money management. It wasn't until the mid 1990's that I started using Quicken and it wasn't until 2003 that I started actively managing our investments in stocks. But, even more important to me is to be able to teach our children the importance of personal finance. This is also an important part of my personal finance management. Because if we teach them to save and use money wisely, they are less likely to make mistakes that might require our resources as parents to recover from.

How do kids really learn to manage money? Most don't until they're adults and then they learn primarily as a result of their own successes and failures. There's usually no course at school, no helpful hints on TV, and observing parents can, in most cases, be confusing at best. The only way kids will learn to manage their money is through their own experience and the guidance we, as parents, may give them. In other words, kids learn from trial and error and role models just like the rest of us. And if they can't learn as children, the price of adult mistakes can be great in terms of money and relationships.

So how does one teach this to their children. For me, it has been trial an error, some ideas work and some don't. We begin with a monthly allowance that began when they started elementary school. They get half and half goes into longterm savings that they can't touch. At the beginning it is just a savings account, but as it grows, I will move it into an index fund, and then at some point we will move it to brokerage account. Also, they must read a book called "The Richest Man in Babylon" by the time they turn twelve to continue receiving their allowance. At this stage, we then offer a 401k type perk. Any money, not their automated allowance savings, that they put in their untouchable longterm savings, we will match up to a yearly limit. We open savings and checking accounts for them when their cash flow warrants it. I also give them a copy of Quicken to use in tracking their money. At one point I offered cash for short essays on various personal finance topics - this didn't work at all. Right now each child is at a different stage in this process. Mariah is just in the savings account arena. Gib still hasn't completed the required reading and, as a result, all his allowance goes into longterm savings. Taryn is in the index fund stage. Indy just this past year moved into the brokerage account and is currently a passive investor of stocks.

The goal is to eventually have Indy be the one calling the shots in the brokerage account, but we are not there yet. And now we get to the reason I post my stock trades. As a result of converting to a brokerage account the question Indy asks is: "How do you know what stocks to invest in?". To which I respond "Research, Diversification, and Speculation". At the same time, it is good to know what others feel are good investments. However, this does not shortcut the responsiblity to do your own homework on any stock. So in esscence my blog can be used as a resource to my children for stocks that I think are worthwhile. Hopefully, it will also serve as a reminder that money doesn't manage itself.

For my children, these posts are required reading. For everyone else, you are more than welcome to ignore these posts.


But remember, personal finance is a responsibility that belongs to everyone. Whether or not you choose to ignore it, your personal finance is and always will be your responsibility. Many people ignore the fact that finances need to be managed. Bills have to be paid, family members have to be fed, and a lifestyle has to be maintained. Good Luck!!

Stock Market

Bought CROX @ 32.75

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Another Milestone for Taryn


Need I say more??

Stock Market

Bought BWLD @ 22.00

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

The "Man-Cave"

Most of my holiday time was spent working on the Man-Cave project. It is one of those tasks after a move that has to be done, but you can always think of more important (translatation: more interesting) things to do. But it bubbled up in urgency due to some unforseen water damage. When we moved to this house, the only additional storage option was the crawl space, officially dubbed the Man-Cave. Alot of our boxed stuff from the old house storage as well as additional boxes created by the move were just stuffed into the crawl space because there was really no other place to put it. Well it turns out that even though there was plastic laid down, there was still a water problem from rain runoff that we ended up losing one of our boxes that was full of history/memories. So it became necessary to get the boxes up off the ground. As most of you know, a crawl space is generally just that a "crawl space", making movement in such an area limited and difficult. Well I believe we were able to accomplish the task reasonably well and without much difficulty and eliminate the crawl aspect. I have posted some pictures of the results, keep in mind that the project is not yet finished, I am still in the process of separating important stuff from junk, and then attempting to store it in some organized fashion. So here it is, "The Man-Cave"








Thanks to Chrissie's Uncle Steve for handling the electrical work for the addtional lighting. And just as important, helping to build the workbench, because no Man-Cave would be complete without that.